Feb 10
It’s a funny thing. Some people seem to be born knowing how to flirt and others, it’s almost too painful to watch. Most people are somewhere in the middle of this. If you feel like you might need a little help flirting with a woman, don’t feel too bad about this. Your are just like almost every other guy out there and many women too. Flirting can be pretty easy when you get the hang of it, but there are times when flirting can go WRONG! How are some ways that you can go wrong flirting with a woman?
is flirting considered cheating?
ok. what i was saying was, is flirting considered cheating? because ive caught my boyfriend flirting with girls behind my back, and right in front of me. i told him that i didnt like him doing that, and i said its flirting with other girls or me. and he said he wanted me. i know that sounds REALLY immature, but i was really upset. we’ve been together for a LONG time, and honestly amongst what other guys/men think, i think flirting is WRONG if you have a wife/girlfriend. because if you have a girlfriend, why would you want to call another girl hot, or beautiful? and why would you want to talk "sexually" to another girl/woman? flirting IS NOT harmless. and i told him that if he wanted to flirt then maybe he should be single, and then he could do all the flirting he wanted. and honestly i think that if a married man wants to flirt with other women then he and his wife should go to counciling or something. i have broken up with my boyfriend 2 times over this. like i said he’s done it like 40 times && a bunch over the internet. he called me ugly, and he told the girls he was flirting with that they were hot as hell, and he told them that he didnt want to have anything to do with me. he’s flirted right in front of me, and it really makes me mad! theres oodles of info id like to give but im sure you havent even read half of this lol so can only *GIRLS* answer this question please??
men should not hit on other women when they are spoken for. but this will never end cause most men are pigs.
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What do you consider flirting? Having a good time with another person is not flirting. Flirting has a definite purpose: to start an intimate relation with that person. If your BF does not have that purpose, he is not flirting. He is having a good time and he is making other persons feel good about themselves. If he has that gift, don’t you think it is selfish of you to request that he only gives it to you?
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Flirting is not cheating. Seems to me that he is testing you. As long as flirting doesn’t translate into something more serious behind your back, it’s all good. Obviously, you are not comfortable with this and therefore you and him need to discuss it. There should also be trust between you, especially if you are married. Sometimes, after a long marriage, things cool off, and your husband wants to feel needed somehow, and flirting makes him feel more secure about himself.
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Married for 5 years
No i wouldn’t consider it cheating BUT i think its a very disrespectful thing to do when in a relationship.
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i think flirting is wrong! its like cheating…my bf doesnt do that, and i for sure dont do that! cuz flirting for me is the beginnig of wanting to get to know someone because ur interested in having something more with them…u need to leave him, hes disrespecting you. hes calling u names and sh*t, u dont need that…just leave him because the more u tell him not to do it, the more he will continue…
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been with bf for 6yrs
Flirting is ok to a certain extent. Physical flirting while married is a no no. But, there is nothing wrong with looking and smiling or talking. By the way just to correct the first answering there is a difference between flirting and hitting on somebody. I just wanted to make sure that you knew that.
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I don’t think flirting is cheating per se…disrespectful, yes…cheating, no. However, flirting can be a precursor of events to come.
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From a man.
everyone has different feelings on what they consider cheating…..
to me.. once you commit yourself to one person either by marriage or boyfriend/girlfriend….. flirting is out the window……
and yes… i do considering flirting a form of cheating….. maybe an innocence form of cheating but still cheating……..
………. just my opinion ……….
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I wouldn’t consider "flirting" as cheating, BUT it sure can be VERY HURTFUL just the same. IF he’s been doing this, w/not stop, keeps hurting you knowingly, then I would say this "clown" has NO respect for you! If someone honestly loved you, knew what they were doing was hurting you but kept on doing it, he has no respect, no deep love, obviously does not care if he hurts you or not. I feel you could do SO MUCH better for yourself than to keep on getting hurt time after time w/this "person". Think about it, would you honestly want to spend the rest of your life w/someone who keeps doing things as he’s doing against you? I KNOW I sure wouldn’t. I’d let him know he’d hurt me for the very LAST time, & MEAN IT. Tell him you no longer can take the hurt he keeps inflicting on you & it seems like he’s almost doing it on purpose! Why don’t you honestly consider finding someone who w/appreciate you for who you are. Someone who w/love you & not do things purposely against you. I’m a firm believer that things happen for a reason. Maybe this is a red flag flying in your face telling you to get away from him & to find someone who w/treat you w/the respect you deserve. Let him keep on flirting the rest of his life, as he’s not going to get anywhere IF he keeps on doing this w/the girls he goes out with. You do deserve better than this, you CAN do it & be happy w/someone else. He’s NOT worth it…Best to you…:)
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Nope is wrong I don’t care what anyone says. First of all he keeps doing this because he knows that no matter how much you threaten to leave him you will always take him back you need to just drop him. If he has no respect for you then why do you need him? If he does all of this in front of your face can you imagine what he does when you are not around! I was always tough that no matter what you are always to respect you man as he is to respect you. I think it would break my heart for my husband to be flirting right in front of my face it would probably make me feel like crap. But you need to be the bigger person and find someone that is going to treat you better and respect you. You also need to tell yourself that you are better and can do better and don’t take him back if he is not a changed man. Some men can change but not all of them!
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Whatever he is doing, if it is making you uncomfortable and he knows it, then he obviously does NOT care enough about you for you to stay in the relationship. He tells you he wants YOU but what is he doing? His actions are speaking loud and clear – to tell someone they look ‘nice’, to tell a joke to get someone to smile – is different, and everyone has an opinion of what flirting actually is. None of that matters. He is doing something that you do not approve up, you have made it clear to him and he still does it. You can stay for a few more years of ‘abuse’ and realize it is time to move on or you can cut the cord, and concentration on finding someone who would not want to hurt you – if you really really really care about him – try turning the tables on him, and see how he feels . . . that may get him to think twice about it . . .but I doubt it – if he does end up stopping IN FRONT OF YOU – he’ll just be doing it behind your back
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